I Never Knew This Much Hate Was Possible

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That evening, when we got back to our rooms and turned off airplane mode, our phones started buzzing with WhatsApp messages. What was going on? Why was everyone panicking? My phone was flooded with harrowing pictures of violence. These were not pictures that were being circulated by the media who tended to blow things out of proportion anyway but those that were being sent to us, in real canada goose outlet near me time, by our own friends who were there.

canada goose store It all happened in a blur. The students who had been peacefully canada goose outlet reviews protesting to condemn the campus violence involving the Akhil Bharatiya Vidyarthi Parishad (ABVP) were roughed up. There were long messages telling us what had happened and asking if any of us could shelter the injured girls. But as is the case with most college hostels, no one could enter our hostel after a certain hour. I was told that students were lathi charged at the protest and herded into police vans like sheep. Then they were taken to a metro station and left there. canada goose store

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How does one ignore something like this?

I took a piece of paper one side of which, in fact, had notes from the previous semester and two different coloured pens. Red and black. My friend wrote down the message we had just sat together and framed. I stood with my back to the white wooden door, holding up the sheet as my friend clicked a picture. It was uploaded with a caption on my Facebook profile page.

Canada Goose Jackets This is what the placard said: ‘I am a student from Delhi University. I am not afraid of ABVP. I am not alone. Every student of India is with me. StudentsAgainstABVP.’ Canada Goose Jackets

So what really happened at Ramjas? The truth is, after that picture was uploaded, no one cared to find out.

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Here’s what happened. After my picture with the placard went viral on social media, all sorts of things were dug out of the dust. A year previously, as part of a peace campaign I had participated in, I appeared in a video in which I held up a placard which read, ‘Pakistan did not kill my father, war killed him.’

Does this seem callous? I genuinely believe that war is cruel and pointless and unnecessary.

I lost my father to war. If anyone knows the damage war can do, it’s the family of an officer.

Canada Goose Outlet That video which no one had paid attention to at the time now resurfaced on social media. Screenshots of me were suddenly being shared canada goose outlet new york city online as further proof of my ‘anti national’ tendencies. I had never faced as much hate as I did in the three days that followed. I had never even known that this much hate was possible. Canada Goose Outlet

People canada goose parka outlet I revered and respected celebrities, politicians, the media went after me with a kind of vitriol that I could barely comprehend at first. From strangers, I received abuse and threats. It seemed that everyone had an opinion on my political beliefs but canada goose outlet buffalo no one actually wanted to ask me what these were.

canada goose uk black friday What bothered me the most was the unspoken accusation that I was not patriotic. At first, I couldn’t articulate clearly why this bothered me so much. With hindsight, I now know what it was. The idea that I a girl who had lost her father in the cause of the nation didn’t canadagooseonsale care about this country was not just ridiculous or laughable, it was actually hurtful. My father taught me more about the real meaning of patriotism in the few years I knew him than anyone else in the years that followed. He was brilliant, brave and loving, and he taught me that a love of peace was more patriotic than any macho enthusiasm for the battlefield. He taught me that hatred does not solve any problem in the world. And he taught me to stand up for myself. canada goose uk black friday

I want no one to go through what canada goose outlet online store review I went through, what my family went through. I’ve had to live without a father for more years than I’ve lived with one. Why would I want anyone else to experience that? And all the people who expressed their hatred and accused me of apathy they will never know how much I’ve had to struggle to get over the loss of my father.

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